Okay, maybe the title of this post should be, “One Thing Is Here and the Other Is Almost Here,” but that would be too long. What is here is my iPod Touch, and what is almost here is Internet.
IPod Touch? Well, KeyBank does these promotional deals where if you open an account and meet certain qualifications, you can get a new gadget. Last summer it was the iPod Touch; now it’s something else. Anyhow, I thought it would be neat to have one, so I convinced my husband to sign up for an account. He did, and really likes the bank. He gets free checks and can transfer from one bank to another for free (which is good, because he has accounts at at least 2 other banks). No, this is not a commercial, but it is kind of exciting to have a new $200ish piece of equipment free. Of course, until we get Internet, it’s not going to be very useful, but I’ve already been taking advantage of the calendar and note-taking and timer features, and think I might start keeping my shopping list on it—at least, once I get a belt clip or some kind of case for it!
But more exciting than that is the fact that in less than a week we will have Internet in our house. I’m almost scared of it. Sure, this is going to mean I don’t have to run to the library to check my email, and if I want to look up a recipe or find out some other bit of information, it will only take a walk down the hall. And maybe I can do a bit more with this blog than I’ve been able to do over the past few months.
But what scares me is that it will suddenly start wasting my time. I haven’t missed it as much as I thought I would. If I wanted to research something, I wrote it down and researched it as fast as I could the next time I was at the library. Because I had to get home after an hour or so, I found it easy to resist the urge to surf from one link to the next. I didn’t delete much out of my inbox—mostly just read the important emails and ignored the rest. But then I only spent about 15-20 minutes max per week on email. With another 5-10 minutes a week, I could delete and unsubscribe from all the unimportant emails and still have time left to watch the videos my friends forwarded but that I couldn’t watch because I never took headphones to the library! Now with Internet at home, I won’t have the pressure to finish quickly. That concerns me.
But I’m determined not to let the computer run my life like it used to. First, it is no longer in the living room. I know some families like to have the computer where everyone can see it, because it helps the user avoid temptation. But that kind of temptation is not an issue for me; instead, the computer itself becomes a temptation every time I see it. Having it in the office at the end of the hall is a much better idea. The only reasons one would have to walk that far down the hall would be to either go in the office (which is also the sewing room) or to answer the door. So in the normal course of a day I would have little reason to go down there. Out of sight, out of mind—that’s what I’m figuring will be helpful for us. And the office doors are glass, so there’s really no privacy for the other kind of temptation anyway.
Beyond that, though, I have decided I need limits. My husband doesn’t want me online every day, and I agree. There’s no reason to get on every day. I’m not sure if I’m going to pick days, or if I’m going to just use it as the need arises. I may pick days not to use it—like Thursday, which is my cleaning day, and maybe Sunday, since my husband will be home and I can spend the time with him instead. I will also try to not use it often when the kids are awake. Occasionally it might be nice to show Gislaine a video on it, but then, if we set up the wireless she could watch Youtube videos on my iPod. Though I think I’m going to keep the wireless off most of the time—otherwise my iPod could become a problem, too!
And when I do get on, I am going to use some kind of add-on to Firefox that will limit my time online. I am not online as I write this, so I can’t remember the name of the one that I heard about last April or May, but I’m sure I can find it once we’re back online again. I’m going to set up a number of limits. I heard you can limit your time overall, as well as time on certain sites. For instance, I might want to spend no more than an hour and a half on any given day. On the other hand, I don’t want to spend that whole hour and a half on Facebook! So I could limit Facebook to 15 minutes. I think I spent 3 minutes last time, reading a couple of messages and responding. In 15 minutes, I could post a status update, check on my friends, post about my latest blog update, and be done with it. Other sites I might not limit—like my blog admin—but rather let the overall time limit be my limit for the day.
I really liked the efficiency I have at the library. I prioritize. I check email first, responding only where necessary and not reading forwards. Then if I need to do anything with my finances (pay off my credit card, which I use for online purchases of things for our household that I have cash for but not in my bank, or to see if a deposit or withdrawal has cleared, or to move money from one account to another), I do that next. Then I do research that I had planned on, then focus on my blog. I usually am running out of time by then, and sometimes don’t get to post everything I had planned on posting, but I have never spent more than an hour and a half on any given day at the library, and I like that.
So once we have Internet, I’m still going to write things down (probably in a note on my iPod instead of on paper), and wait until the next time I get online to research them, rather than running off to the computer every time I feel like researching something. It is much easier to control my time online this way! Plus, it helps to avoid the instant-gratification syndrome that is becoming so common in the world today.
Also, I’m going to do my best to continue to put exercise before computer. I say continue, because in the last couple of weeks I have been going out for walks while the kids napped (thanks to the Indian summer), and I think this will help me a lot with staying healthy. I’ve been sick too much this summer, and I think lack of exercise was at least partly to blame. I am on a roll now, though. Not sure how many miles I’ve walked so far this week, but I will probably hit 10 before the week is out if I keep up the rate I’m going. That and when I get to the gym, I can do other things besides walk. But this has nothing to do with the Internet, so maybe I should tell you about the gym another time.
Now it’s your turn. Tell me what you do to tame the Internet in your life.